✨❤️ The Needy Girl Boss ❤️✨ on F-ing Around and Finding Out
The Instagram Girlies & Reddit Karens had a choice this week...they chose wrong with me.
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Well, September has come and gone. So did October. And here we are, halfway through November and 2024 has officially been the longest year of my life.
So many of you know what happened last week in the U.S., so I am not going to relive that nightmare for you. What I am going to do is ask this: when are people on the internet going to stop trying to push black women’s buttons?
I cannot believe that I, after many years of slaying it on the internet, actually got into real internet beef this week. Of course, it happened on the Quinn subreddit a few days ago. As a consistent lover of audio erotica, I have a lot of thoughts — especially in the inclusivity and wanting more audios directly to black women and women of color — which really isn’t that hard of an ask if you think about it. I’ve aligned myself with fellow listeners who want the same — and been supported in allyship with well-meaning and smart women who are not of color who want us to have exactly those things.
Anony going quiet on Socials
byu/Distinct-Addition-24 inQuinnAudios
But then there are…we’ll call them…subjective dissenters. Yes, I’ll call them that here because…their dissent is really steeped in two things: their fear and their unpacked racism. The amount of “they” “them” and “you people” styled messages I’ve seen from those…subjective dissenters…in this Quinnmunity have been…sad, but not shocking. Let’s be honest, I am never going to be shocked by the audacity of white women as long as I live in this universe or timeline.
As you can see on the thread (yes, I am digital queen 2020 because I EARNED THE NICKNAME), I don’t hold back because…honestly, folks, you know me — why would I back down now?
So, knowing that the fire fight was going to go back on the ‘gram, I followed up with what I do best: clap back in meme form. One of the sisters in our chat shared these two iconic school desegreation photos in the chat and I was like “Fuck it, I am going to make memes.” From this, I curated this carousel and haven’t heard a peep from those haters…er, um…subjective dissenters…since. IDK if they are planning a sneak attack. Quite frankly, IDC — even my momma likes this post.
I have to admit, the meme making made me quite merry on Thursday.
So, if you’ve made it this far, what I want to see from Quinn and just audio erotica in general without going through the cesspools of GWA of Reddit:
More representation and inclusivity in the tagging, VA talent and and scriptwriters. There is a network of folks chomping at the bit to write for these outlets but they don’t seem to be getting called back. Meanwhile, the talent being recruited appears geared to a basic #Booktok audience, which why? I don’t want these bros with no fucking (or fuckable) talent blandly whispering in my ear. They probably learned how to pick up women from Andrew Tate. GROSS. NO. STOP.
It’s like I wrote on another Quinn subreddit thread: “Amen. I couldn't agree more. Feedback is a gift — he needs to hear the good and the bad to get better. More than just white women are subscribing to Quinn. Breathe it in and bask in it — black women listen and we want to be represented. We don't turn red when spanked, our sensitive bits aren't all pink, and we want to be addressed appropriately. And we'd appreciate it if he and other VAs did it without fear or at least say why they don't while being direct about it. It's not that hard to understand.”
Audios geared toward black women. We like getting off, too. Full stop. There’s nothing hotter than a white man knowing that I can’t just lay my head on any old fabric or surface.
Audios geared toward BBWs, big girls, plus-sized women, etc. I am going to keep it real with you all: my pull game is strong. I usually don’t get turned down, and when I do, it’s his loss (TRULY HIS LOSS), and not mine. However, I know some of these slim cuties performing audios are into big girls — and if they aren’t, that’s OK. Their skinny woman audience isn’t going anywhere. Body appreciation may not fall under big woman or BBW or plus size appreciation — it’s more than semantics. DO MORE, PLEASE. I am not the only one who wants to hear the love, appreciation, or desire for their body type.
All this to say, if you’re not into black women, big girls, or anything that’s not rockin’ little body with long, tan legs, please don’t use this platform to play me. Stick to the athletic blondes you like, if that’s what you’re into. It’s boring, but there’s a lid for every trash can.
Lastly, this is a final warning: everyone who wants to have a real, in-depth and thoughtful conversation about anything at all can do so with me — but it would behoove you to come to me with a level of mutual respect. I am not a killer, but don’t push me.
✨❤️ NSFW Meme of the Week ❤️✨
🎶 T’s Tasty Tune of the Week 🎶
There are a few white men left that I can trust. But I trust Hozier.
And here’s 12 minutes of Hozier being ✨adorable✨:
P.S.: Don’t forget — The Needy Girl Boss playlist is here for all of your random moods:
It’s Friday night, and the Tyson — Paul fight starts at 8 p.m. ET. Daylight savings time kicked my ass again… ALSO — fuck off, seasonal depression.
Be well, fam ✌🏾
Oh, snap — and GO Dawgs — Beat Tennessee ❤️ 🖤
“But then there are…we’ll call them…subjective dissenters. Yes, I’ll call them that here because…their dissent is really steeped in two things: their fear and their unpacked racism.”
Nothing but bars and facts. Bravo.